Umtshato WamaXhosa: Inkqubo Epheleleyo Yokudibanisa Iintsapho Nezinyanya

Kwisithethe samaXhosa, umtshato (umtshato wesintu) awusosiganeko sosuku olunye kuphela.

Yinkqubo ende enamanqanaba aqala ngeentetho zosapho de kuphele ngokungeniswa kukamakoti kwindlu yomyeni nakwintsapho yezinyanya.

Le nkqubo ihlala iiveki okanye iinyanga, kwaye injongo yayo kukwakha ubudlelwane obuzinzileyo phakathi kweentsapho ezimbini, hayi nje ukudibanisa abantu ababini.

Inyathelo lokuqala liqala ngokuqinisekiswa kwe-isiduko, kuba ukutshata kwabantu abanesiduko esinye kuthathwa njengokutshata kwezihlobo.

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Emva koko kusetyenziswa ukuthunyelwa kwencwadi (ukuthunyelwa kwencwadi), apho usapho lomyeni lubhengeza injongo yalo kwaye lucele umhla weengxoxo.

Usapho lukamakoti luphendula ngokuvuma (ukuvuma), ludla ngokusebenzisa amadoda amabini njengabameli besiko.

Kwinqanaba lelobola (ilobola/ikhazi), kudluliselwa iinkomo okanye ixabiso lemali elivunyelwene ngalo.

Oku akukokuthenga umakoti, koko luphawu lombulelo nobudlelwane.

Iindwendwe zivula iingxoxo ngezimbo zesiduko (izithakazelo) nangomqondiso wemvulamlomo/ivul’umlomo, okuthetha “ukuvula umlomo.”

Amanani adla ngokukhankanywa aphakathi kweenkomo ezili-10 ukuya kwezi-12, kodwa oku kuyahluka, kwaye intlawulo idla ngokwenziwa ngezigaba.

Emva koko kulandela izipho: umembeso/izibizo zisuka kwicala lomyeni, logama umbondo usuka kwicala likamakoti, uquka ukutya neempahla zasekhaya.

Ngomhla womtshato, uduli luzisa umtshakazi emzini, kusenokuxhelwa ibhokhwe yokwamkela, aze aboniswe enkundleni. Umbhiyozo ugxila kumdudo, kuquke ukududa, ukungqungqa, nokuyiyizela; abanye abatshatileyo badibanisa nesonto okanye “white wedding.”

Inqanaba lokugqibela libandakanya utsiki/ukutyiswa amasi, apho umakoti efakwa ngokusemthethweni kwintsapho entsha.

Utya injeke yedwa, aze anikwe amasi njengophawu lokwamkelwa.

Emva koko kungena ixesha lokuhlonipha (ukuhota/ukuhlonipha), elinokuba yinyanga enye ukuya kwezine, apho kulandelwa imigaqo yentlonipho, ulwimi lokuthintela amagama athile, nemikhwa yasekhaya.

Kwezinye iintsapho kusenokubakho inkubabulongwe yokumnceda, kwaye umahluko wesiko usoloko uxhomekeke kusapho, kwisiduko, nakwingingqi.