UNtando Rambani uthetha ngenxeba lokugculelwa nendlela elimenze ngayo umama ongcono

UNtando Rambani, ongumlingisi kwaye ngoku engumbhali, uvule intliziyo yakhe ngobuhlungu bokukhula egculelwa ngeefreckles zakhe.

Kwincoko yakhe noNandi Madida kwiMotherhood Network Book Club, uchaze indlela amazwi osapho anokushiya ngayo amanxeba anzulu emntwaneni, nokuba umntu sele mdala kangakanani.

Kwelo qonga, ebexoxa ngemixholo yencwadi yakhe entsha ethi From One Mother to Another.

Ikliphu yale ngxoxo iye yasasazeka kakhulu kumajelo onxibelelwano, apho uNtando ebalisa inkumbulo ebuhlungu eyamenza walila.

Uthe wayesakha amaphupha okubonakala kumabonakude, ekhuthazwa nguHulisani Ravele awayeziva efana naye ngenxa yeefreckles.

Kwibali lakhe, uNtando uthe ugogo wakhe wakhe wathi ezo freckles zimenza abe mbi.

Uguqulele loo mzuzu ngamazwi achukumisayo: “Ewe, ugogo wam ngokwakhe wandixelela oko…,” watsho elila.

Le nkcazelo ibonakalise indlela ukugculelwa ekhaya kunokuba nzima ngakumbi kunokugxekwa ngabantu bangaphandle.

Nangona wayelila, wachaza ukuba iinyembezi zakhe aziveli kwingqumbo, koko zivela kwintlungu yokufuna ukuxhaswa abe efumana okuchasene noko.

Sekunjalo, ubone isifundo esibalulekileyo: uyayazi ngoku indlela ekufuneka avele ngayo kubantwana bakhe njengomama.

UNtando wongeze esithi: “Ndiyavuya ukuba ndadibana nale nto, sisi Nandi, kuba indlela endimama ngayo ngoku yahluke kakhulu.”

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Wathi ugogo wakhe wamnika “umzekelo ocacileyo kakhulu wokuba umntu makangabonakali njani ebomini bomntwana.”

Ibali lakhe lishiya umyalezo onamandla ngothando, ukuqinisekiswa, nokuphilisa amanxeba obuntwana.

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